When a problem occurs between you and others,
would you prefer to run a way,
or to face them,
noting the problem that occurs between you and them.
To lead a team as a deputy director,
it is not easy to satisfy everyone.
Problem occurs between people.
Some due to work not done in time,
Some due to work is imperfect,
Some due to attitude.
We had a small sharing session within department,
we want them to clear the barriers among themselves.
The session seems to end well,
but does it?
It depends.
The outcome could be seen by this upcoming months.
Whether it is good or bad.
I hope it turns out to be good,
or else the session would be a waste of time.
People always think themselves are right
and others are wrong.
Things sometimes does not work that way,
people could not see faults in themselves,
others does.
It is hard to accept criticisms but these are the words
that helps us grow.
Some are just personal grudge,
which cannot be change.
But what to do?
Life sometimes could be contradicting too.
Sunday, October 29, 2017
Thursday, October 26, 2017
When you know you should stop, but you don't want to
Is it due to the cravings of someone's presents in your life or is it you being ignorance?
Would you do something that hurts you even you love it?
Would you make decisions, do you use your brain or your heart?
Can everything just stop when you said stop?
Will someone tell you that you are stupid when you did something really stupid?
Can someone be friend and enemy at the same time?
Is life complicated or is it us that are making life complicated?
Is it okay to leave everything behind and start over new?
Can we be dead for awhile?
Apart of me wants to survive, apart doesn't.
Whats the point of holding on and yet unable to let go?
Would you do something that hurts you even you love it?
Would you make decisions, do you use your brain or your heart?
Can everything just stop when you said stop?
Will someone tell you that you are stupid when you did something really stupid?
Can someone be friend and enemy at the same time?
Is life complicated or is it us that are making life complicated?
Is it okay to leave everything behind and start over new?
Can we be dead for awhile?
Apart of me wants to survive, apart doesn't.
Whats the point of holding on and yet unable to let go?
Thursday, August 17, 2017
The paradoxical person
Hey, been busy nowadays with assignments and stuff. Have not been able to update here but here I am now, having the motivation to write again.
Recently I have been leading two assignments groups whereby both assignments required us to do role play. I found myself being contradict in my ideas and also in deciding the suggested ideas from my group mates.
I personally think that paradoxical person are creative people and they pursue perfection in things or in their work. Well, I am not as such as my attitude itself is contradicting with each other. Sometimes people perceive me as someone who is unpredictable. Sometimes I am easy to be predicted. I am referring on simple things. A simple example which is having meals, whether to have meals with friends or not to. I like having meals with friends and I like to have meals alone too. Hence I always have to come up with a decision. Even when the decision is set, I might change my mind when I think the other idea is better than the initial ones.
Paradox really helps in coming up with numerous ideas, as one idea improvised from the other. But it is really a burden when it comes to decision making. I want to be someone who is firm in the decisions I made but every time I would have fail as I always think that the grass is greener on the other side.
I bet most of us have slight issue with paradox but in my opinion, those who counters it and focus on their goals and aim, are those who are successful in what they do.
I do not plan to change myself as I somewhat would turn the plan down anyways, I will just go with the flow and continue living.
Thanks for reading my rant.
Just want to write for no reason.
Synonym96
Recently I have been leading two assignments groups whereby both assignments required us to do role play. I found myself being contradict in my ideas and also in deciding the suggested ideas from my group mates.
I personally think that paradoxical person are creative people and they pursue perfection in things or in their work. Well, I am not as such as my attitude itself is contradicting with each other. Sometimes people perceive me as someone who is unpredictable. Sometimes I am easy to be predicted. I am referring on simple things. A simple example which is having meals, whether to have meals with friends or not to. I like having meals with friends and I like to have meals alone too. Hence I always have to come up with a decision. Even when the decision is set, I might change my mind when I think the other idea is better than the initial ones.
Paradox really helps in coming up with numerous ideas, as one idea improvised from the other. But it is really a burden when it comes to decision making. I want to be someone who is firm in the decisions I made but every time I would have fail as I always think that the grass is greener on the other side.
I bet most of us have slight issue with paradox but in my opinion, those who counters it and focus on their goals and aim, are those who are successful in what they do.
I do not plan to change myself as I somewhat would turn the plan down anyways, I will just go with the flow and continue living.
Thanks for reading my rant.
Just want to write for no reason.
Synonym96
Monday, June 19, 2017
Friend
Good day, it has been very busy for me to update my blog but here I am now.
Have your day been great so far?
Do not give up or be sad if it is not. Always believe that it will all goes well.
Recently I received a question of what is a friend from a friend that I used to be close with but there are some issues with her caused me to avoid her.
What is a friend to you? Someone that shares the same dream as you? Someone that laughs with you?Someone that could back you up when you are in trouble? Someone that criticize you? Someone that humiliates you as a joke?
To me, friends are people that appear in our life and go away after a period of time. Some friends are destined to be Hi and Bye kind of friends. Some friends would be the ones that worth your time and your sacrifices. I think that friendship are like relationship, it involves two way communication. Without the right communication, the friendship would shatter. Acceptance is the key. Give and take.
Probably the Hi and Bye kind of friends are supposed to be called acquaintance but the number of times you met this person, somehow you cannot take them as acquaintance. Probably you take someone as a friend but he or she does not take it that way. Yes, it is really sad to have that kind of feeling but I think that probably we should take this opportunity to find out why he or she does not take us as friend when we took him or her as one. This might help to improve the bond, not to mention, ourselves.
People change. We cannot expect someone to be the same as the first day we met them. It depends if you can accept your friend's changes. If you cannot, try telling him or her, or change your perceptive. If both ways does not work, Hi and Bye friend is always an option.
Friends does not have to stick together always to be friends. I would consider someone whom I did not talk to for 4 or 5 years a friend. It is because the memories with them, is truly precious. Not to say that present is not, but sometimes things just don't go in our way.
I guess that is all up till today, I would update my blog as much as I could. Thank you for reading.
Before you go, try to have some thoughts on these question, something to think about.
What is your opinion on the word friend?
Who is your friends?
Who is your real friends?
What is real friends to you?
Would your friends agree to lend you money as much as 5k when you are in trouble?
Would your friends talk bad behind you?
Would you friends talk bad in your face, pointing your weakness to you?
Would your friends share their secrets with you?
Would your friends come out in the middle of the night just to listen to your stories?
Hope you know who are your friends.
These are my opinions, there are no rights or wrong in the content.
Hope you like my posts.
19/6/2017
synonym96
Have your day been great so far?
Do not give up or be sad if it is not. Always believe that it will all goes well.
Recently I received a question of what is a friend from a friend that I used to be close with but there are some issues with her caused me to avoid her.
What is a friend to you? Someone that shares the same dream as you? Someone that laughs with you?Someone that could back you up when you are in trouble? Someone that criticize you? Someone that humiliates you as a joke?
To me, friends are people that appear in our life and go away after a period of time. Some friends are destined to be Hi and Bye kind of friends. Some friends would be the ones that worth your time and your sacrifices. I think that friendship are like relationship, it involves two way communication. Without the right communication, the friendship would shatter. Acceptance is the key. Give and take.
Probably the Hi and Bye kind of friends are supposed to be called acquaintance but the number of times you met this person, somehow you cannot take them as acquaintance. Probably you take someone as a friend but he or she does not take it that way. Yes, it is really sad to have that kind of feeling but I think that probably we should take this opportunity to find out why he or she does not take us as friend when we took him or her as one. This might help to improve the bond, not to mention, ourselves.
People change. We cannot expect someone to be the same as the first day we met them. It depends if you can accept your friend's changes. If you cannot, try telling him or her, or change your perceptive. If both ways does not work, Hi and Bye friend is always an option.
Friends does not have to stick together always to be friends. I would consider someone whom I did not talk to for 4 or 5 years a friend. It is because the memories with them, is truly precious. Not to say that present is not, but sometimes things just don't go in our way.
I guess that is all up till today, I would update my blog as much as I could. Thank you for reading.
Before you go, try to have some thoughts on these question, something to think about.
What is your opinion on the word friend?
Who is your friends?
Who is your real friends?
What is real friends to you?
Would your friends agree to lend you money as much as 5k when you are in trouble?
Would your friends talk bad behind you?
Would you friends talk bad in your face, pointing your weakness to you?
Would your friends share their secrets with you?
Would your friends come out in the middle of the night just to listen to your stories?
Hope you know who are your friends.
These are my opinions, there are no rights or wrong in the content.
Hope you like my posts.
19/6/2017
synonym96
Wednesday, May 10, 2017
Life is a lesson
Life indeed is a lesson,
We fall, we need to learn to stand back up.
Nothing could guarantee that we would not fall again,
Only you could choose,
Whether to stand up,
Embrace the next challenges coming right at you,
Or, continue to stay put
In your very own comfort zone.
While pain, sadness and regrets,
There would not be gain, happiness and experience.
It is okay to have these negativity in us,
Do not keep it for to long,
Change it, accept it, turn it into
Hope, Faith and Glory.
Nothing could help us,
If we do not even want to help ourselves.
Take the leap,
Be brave,
Be confident,
Be enthusiastic,
Be nice,
As life,
Is full of surprises.
Synonym96
10 May 2017
We fall, we need to learn to stand back up.
Nothing could guarantee that we would not fall again,
Only you could choose,
Whether to stand up,
Embrace the next challenges coming right at you,
Or, continue to stay put
In your very own comfort zone.
While pain, sadness and regrets,
There would not be gain, happiness and experience.
It is okay to have these negativity in us,
Do not keep it for to long,
Change it, accept it, turn it into
Hope, Faith and Glory.
Nothing could help us,
If we do not even want to help ourselves.
Take the leap,
Be brave,
Be confident,
Be enthusiastic,
Be nice,
As life,
Is full of surprises.
Synonym96
10 May 2017
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